Being able to “get” a guy who was out of my reach to like me felt like a high that no drug would ever be able to compare to.My subconscious pattern went something like this: meet an emotionally unavailable (but charming) guy, have a connection, see them pulling away, cling harder to them, feeling that if they could just somehow get into my reach then I’d be worthy.
We can’t change our hurtful, dysfunctional past, but we can create a satisfying and secure future.
You want a wonderful boyfriend or husband but you believe you are unworthy of a man’s respect, love and commitment. You romanticize and anguish about a relationship with your new man.
Your feelings of uncertainty project desperation and neediness.
I know that when I was dating it happened to me on numerous occasions and I had to take a hard look at myself and my dating patterns.
While I seemed like a successful, confident girl on the outside, on the inside my self-esteem was shaky at best.
Suitors back away from you because you’re mercurial.